Pedro Pascal
50th birthday: April 2, 2025
The Most Famous 50-Year-Old in the World
As I write this, Pedro Pascal is the most famous 50-year-old on the planet. And, by all accounts, it couldn’t have happened to a nicer guy.
But life didn’t start out easy for José Pedro Balmaceda Pascal.
When he was born in Santiago, Chile, his parents were considered enemies of the state by the military dictatorship of Augusto Pinochet. People just like them were being arrested, tortured, murdered and sometimes just “disappeared.”
Pedro is known for playing father figures on screen, but as a baby, it was he who had to be spirited away to safety.
His mother, a child psychologist, and his father, a fertility doctor, brought baby Pedro and his older sister Javiera first to Denmark where they found political asylum, and eventually to San Antonio, Texas.
When Pedro was 11, the family moved to Orange County, California, where he became interested in acting. For college, he went to NYU’s Tisch School of the Arts and lived out the stereotypical actor’s story of waiting tables and doing odd jobs between auditions.
Pedro’s mother died just as he was launching out on his own as a 24-year-old actor in the year 2000. Understandably, her death had a huge effect on him; he began going by her last name, Pascal, in honor of her memory.
For the next 14 years he took small roles on stage and in TV and film. He probably felt like giving up many, many times.
Then in 2014, Pedro’s scene-stealing performance as Oberyn Martell on Game of Thrones made the rest of the world stop and ask, “Who is that?”
In my opinion, the coolest thing about Pedro Pascal is his continued humility despite the unbearable weight of his massive fame. Not everyone makes it to 50, and how fortunate we are that Pedro is one of the lucky ones.
The Unbearable Weight of Massive Talent
As a fellow 1975 kid, I completely understand Pedro’s call to acting. Some of the most incredible movies of our childhoods came out in 1985 (right before Pedro’s family moved to California), including Clue, Back to the Future, The Breakfast Club, Weird Science, Teen Wolf, The Goonies, Rocky IV, Pee-Wee’s Big Adventure . . . the list goes on and on.
Hollywood started making movies that spoke directly to us — and even though Pedro and I were still too young to go on adventures and fall in love, we were old enough to be moved by these stories.
It was a full-circle moment for Pedro to co-star with Nicolas Cage in 2022’s The Unbearable Weight of Massive Talent because we had grown up watching Valley Girl, Peggy Sue Got Married, Moonstruck and Raising Arizona. (Pedro is a boy so he probably also watched Face/Off and Con Air.)
Nic Cage stole my heart as Charlie in Peggy Sue Got Married with his blonde pompadour and weird voice, but there was something kind of dark about him too. As Ronnie Cammareri in Moonstruck he was like a wild animal, a werewolf trapped in the body of a man, needing to be tamed by Loretta’s love. Then in Raising Arizona, Nic gives one of the greatest comedic performances of our childhoods without trying to be funny at all.
If you would’ve told 11-year-old Pedro that he would some day get to work with Nicolas Cage, he would probably be stunned. For an actor, it must be thrilling to work alongside your heroes. It’s cool to think that young actors of the future might feel the same way about working with Pedro Pascal.
I am Star Wars now . . .
When Star Wars: Episode I — The Phantom Menace came out in 1999, all my guy friends rushed to see it in theaters. But despite how much they wanted to like it, they seemed to have to work pretty hard to. And by 2005’s Revenge of the Sith, even the die-hard Star Wars fans were over it.
Which is why it was so surprising when Jon Favreau’s space western The Mandalorian brought the nostalgia and heart of the originals rushing back in 2019.
The story takes place five years after Return of the Jedi. Pedro Pascal plays Din Djarin, a Mandalorian bounty hunter who is supposed to deliver Grogu, the magical child (who is 50 years old, by the way!), to Imperial forces. But meeting Grogu changes Din Djarin. He abandons his former life completely in order to save the child and protect the universe from the misuse of his powers.
The character of Grogu had a magnetizing effect in real life too — drawing in people who may not have been fans before. There was a meme going around with a picture of Grogu that said, “I am Star Wars now!”
But it was Pedro as the Mandalorian who really sealed the deal. Even without seeing his face, there was strength and softness in his voice and movements. He seemed more comfortable behind the mask. Without facial expressions to worry about, he let his body do the talking.
Heroic Journeys
Whether he’s hunting down Pablo Escobar as DEA agent Javier Peña in Narcos or setting a trap for Gregor “The Mountain” Clegane as Oberyn Martell in Game of Thrones, Pedro’s characters are multidimensional. Good guys are a little spicy. Bad guys are kinda sweet. There are tragic sacrifices and unsung heroic moments.
In real life Pedro heroically takes on the burden of fame. It must be strange to finally achieve stardom after so long only to find that fame is annoying and stressful.
Often on the red carpet you’ll see Pedro holding someone’s hand or arm like it’s a life preserver. During promotions for The Last Of Us, he went viral for placing his hand on his stomach and telling co-star Bella Ramsey, “my anxiety is right here . . .”
Even when he’s playing hardened tough guys or bad boys, Pedro’s vulnerability shines through. He has a lot of heart.
The Other Fantastic Four
On February 15, 2021, Pedro shared a picture of his mom on Instagram that said in Spanish, “Mom, here you are in Denmark at 22. Married, a refugee and mother of two. Years later, you would have two more, another son and another daughter. We are doing well; we are taking care of ourselves. Not a day goes by that you’re not with us and we appreciate you.”
It’s amazing to think that every young refugee, every young mother and father, might be carrying in their arms the next Pedro Pascal.
Or they might be a young Pedro themselves, fighting to survive and find a place to call home so that they can grow the gifts they are meant to share.
We never know who another person is — or who they could be. What is lost when we label someone as “just an immigrant” or when we assign value based on nationality, ethnicity, class, gender, race?
Each and every person has the potential of becoming our next Pedro Pascal — someone who brings so much happiness into our world.
You hear a lot about the machismo of Latinx cultures, but Pedro embodies a more enlightened masculinity. His public support of his sister, actress and transgender activist Lux Pascal, is not a political choice — it’s an act of love.
On his 50th birthday, Pedro posted a few pictures on his Instagram stories: Early in the day, there were shots of him being surprised by streamers as he stepped out of his trailer on a film set. There was genuine joy in his reaction.
Later, there were snaps of a birthday party. Being that he is the most famous 50-year-old in the world, Pedro might have been surrounded by A-list superstars or beautiful young fans begging for him to be their “zaddy.” But the people surrounding him were his siblings.
If he wanted to, Pedro could have what we’re told is the American Dream: a pretty young wife and a couple of kids in a mansion in Beverly Hills. So I think it says a lot about the man that he spent this milestone birthday with his brother and sisters.
Pedro models a whole-hearted masculinity, one that isn’t afraid to stand up for others. He demonstrates how to be an ally, but there’s no artifice in it. He’s just being the loving brother, and there’s something so damn manly about that.
Pedro’s Playful Heart
Some of my favorite Pedro moments have happened off-screen. No matter how serious the role he’s playing, he is still able to turn off the character and embrace play in real life.
We’re so used to seeing “older” men paired with young co-stars in romantic scenarios that it’s refreshing to see Pedro connect with younger actors more like an older brother. There’s nothing creepy about him. One gets the feeling that he has nurtured and protected his own inner child, which lets him connect with people of all ages.
It is truly a pleasure to watch Pedro and Bella Ramsey both onscreen and off. Their friendship is a testament to the fact that people of different generations can have genuine affection for each other.
We often think of elders guiding the way for younger colleagues, but I think it’s more of a give-and-take: We all benefit when older people remain young at heart, and when younger people are given the power to express themselves.
Talkin’ ‘bout My Generation
I love finding hidden connections with others born in 1975. The first time I thought of Pedro Pascal as being my age was when I came across a behind-the-scenes video of him on a film set with Keegan-Michael Key and David Duchovny.
They’re listening to “She’s Got Her Ticket” by Tracy Chapman. Keegan is singing and Pedro is holding up his phone, rocking back and forth — and then Keegan sort of motions to Pedro for him to sing the bridge, “Why not leave / Why not go away / Too much hatred / Corruption and greed / Give your life and / Invariably they leave you with nothing.”
It’s a heavy song, but Keegan and Pedro are singing along joyfully — the same way that I would. Tracy Chapman’s self-titled album was one of those cultural moments that captured everyone’s attention when it was released in 1988.
I was having a rough time in 1988. I distinctly remember sitting on the couch in our little condo on the cul-de-sac in Boulder as a 13-year-old, listening to this album over and over. I wish I could send her this video from the future to show her that other kids were feeling the same way, that there was a hilarious guy named Keegan growing up in Detroit, and a sweet young Pedro in California who would later be the most famous guy in the world, rocking out to this song at the same time I was.
The Eagle and the Condor
As a reminder for the geographically challenged like myself, Chile is that long, skinny country on the west coast of South America. It stretches 2,670 miles north to south, but it’s only 217 miles at its widest point and 40 miles at its narrowest.
It’s an entire country of coastline with vast ocean to the west, the world’s driest desert in the north, and the Andes mountains to the east. It is also the southernmost country in the world, and the closest to Antarctica. Chile more than any other land, seems to occupy all the elements from fire to ice.
From Chile’s oceanside cliffs, you might spot an Andean condor, the national bird. It makes me think of the ancient prophecy among many indigenous cultures of the Eagle and the Condor, which states that humanity will split into two paths — the path of the eagle, which represents masculine energies of the mind, and the path of the condor, embodied by feminine qualities of the heart. The prophecy says that the eagle will be so powerful for a time that it will almost crush the condor out of existence. But this will be followed by another time (that they say began around the year 1990 and will last 500 years) when the eagle and condor will fly side by side, and have the chance to reach enlightenment by balancing the masculine and feminine energies.
In the United States, we’ve been conditioned to worship the eagle — both literally and figuratively — and to fear the condor.
In the early 1970s, Chile was undergoing a miraculous period of economic and social growth. Democratically elected President Salvador Allende had implemented reforms that were vastly improving quality of life, especially for the poor and uneducated. Free milk for kids, better maternity care for mothers, better housing and more social programs were saving lives. As just one example, in the first two years of Allende’s presidency, the infant mortality rate fell 90%.
But sadly, the world wouldn’t get to see what would have happened if Allende were able to finish out his term as president. He was forced to end his own life in 1973, when he was ousted from power by a CIA-backed coup, which ushered in 17 years of right-wing conservative dictatorship under Augusto Pinochet.
Pedro Pascal’s mother, Verónica Pascal Ureta, was likely targeted as an enemy of the Pinochet dictatorship for her own views, but also because of her family ties: She was the cousin of President Allende’s nephew, Andrés Pascal Allende, an early leader of the Movement of the Revolutionary Left.
Because Allende identified as a Socialist, we in the US had been conditioned to fear the changes that were happening in Chile. But from everything I have read, socialism wasn’t being used as an anti-American political tool in this case, but it was being offered as a viable alternative to self-interested capitalism. Like the condor of the prophecy, Allende’s efforts were cut short by those of the Western mindset, who could only see the danger rather than the potential of living by the heart.
As we face similar issues in our world today, we’re collectively standing at the crossroads of another head vs. heart moment. Maybe like the prophecy predicts, there is a third way — a way of balance — led with new masculinity by men of my generation like Pedro Pascal.
Pedro Pascal Watchlist
As with any of my watchlists, these selections are made purely on the basis of what connected with me. Sometimes they are the “best” movies and TV shows on the subject, but more often it’s just that these are what stuck with me.
The Top 5 are presented in order of my favorites, the ones I would take with me to a desert island.
Other Watching is in chronological order, and sometimes I may not even have seen it. I just think it sounds interesting, or it tells a bit more of the story about this person or topic.
Pedro Pascal Top 5
Game of Thrones (2014) — Oberyn Martell
The Mandalorian (2019—2023) — Din Djarin, the Mandalorian
The Last of Us (2023—2025) — Joel Miller
Narcos (2015—2017) — Javier Pena
Prospect (2018) — Ezra
Pedro Pascal Other Watching
Buffy the Vampire Slayer (1999) — Eddie
Touched by an Angel (2000) — Ricky Hauk
NYPD Blue (2001) — Shane “Dio” Morrissey
Law & Order (2008) — Tito Cabassa
Law & Order: Criminal Intent (2006—2009): Kevin “Kip” Green / Reggie Luckman
Nurse Jackie (2010) — Steve
The Good Wife (2006) — Nathan Landry
The Adjustment Bureau (2011) — Maitre d’ Paul de Santo
Brothers & Sisters (2011) — Zach Wellison
Law & Order: Special Victims Unit (2011) — Special Agent Greer
Body of Proof (2012) — Zack Goffman
CSI: Crime Investigation (2012) — Kyle Hartley
Homeland (2013) — David Portillo
Graceland (2013—2014) — Agent Juan Badillo
The Mentalist (2014) — Agent Marcus Pike
Kingsman: The Gold Circle (2017) — Whiskey
If Beale Street Could Talk (2018) — Pietro Alvarez
Wonder Woman 1984 (2020) — Maxwell Lord
The Unbearable Weight of Massive Talent (2022) — Javi Gutierrez
The Bubble (2022) — Dieter Bravo
Strange Way of Life (2023) — Silva
Freaky Tales (2024) — Clint
Drive-Away Dolls (2024) — Penis collector
The Wild Robot (2024) — Fink
Gladiator II (2024) — General Acacius
The Fantastic Four: First Steps (2025) — Reed Richards / Mr. Fantastic